Are you disciplined, yet life feels chaotic?
Smart, but stuck?
Caring, yet misunderstood?
Value growth, but trapped in your comfort zone?
I’d love to help.
- Iryna
What you find here
Support & Nurture
Hello! I’m Iryna, a Family Constellations Facilitator, who can help you re-connect to the vision you carry inside and know your why.You’ve likely tried everything - Kanban, Marie Kondo, even blaming yourself - yet something still feels off. If life has become an endless cycle of meetings, commutes, and chores, you’re not alone.✨ Welcome to a space for clarity and transformation. ✨Through Family Constellations and Closing the Bones, we’ll explore what may be holding you back, uncover hidden patterns, nurture deep reconnection, and create space for new possibilities. After our work together, something shifts - your perspective, your energy, your opportunities. And suddenly, your presence is enough.I’d be honored to support you on this journey.
90 minute 1:1 online - $120
Inquiry
Using the Family Constellation modality, we will delve deep into the underlying causes of your question and explore how your family history is hindering your progress. We will acknowledge what is and examine what has been excluded. Systematically, we will restore the flow, allowing you to feel a bit more at ease in your journey toward your goals. This process will lead to increased clarity and a new perspective within you.


What is it about?
Family Constellations
Whether we like it or not, we all live in systems that predefine our behavior and attitude to life around us. Family Constellations modality provides an opportunity to look at any situation from a systemic view - what influences you when you think or act in certain way, what impact that drastic change has had on you. It is a space where we can witness how drama of our life is played out. Looking at it with calm attitude, having facilitator’s support, and receiving healing sentences as statement of simple truth has a potential to propel you into living a more content and fulfilled life.If you are wondering if working with me might be a good fit for you and your questions, you are welcome to book a 30 min free call consultation.
A package with three online sessions - $300
Series of Three
This package includes three 90 minute one-on-one Family Constellations sessions, perfect for exploring a series of issues or questions you’d like to address. It offers a unique opportunity to track the progression of how your relationship to a problem evolves over time, helping you uncover and heal deep-rooted family dynamics. Examples: organizational issues, publishing a book, launching business, relational questions, and inner life.
Clarity
Confidence
Connection
Two hours in person - $300
Rebozo Rocking Ceremony
The Rebozo ceremony is a soft and nurturing technique that uses a long woven scarf - rebozo - to gently rock your body from side to side. This movement helps body release emotional and physical tensions. As a result, nervous system calms down and body receives deep rest. In Central America, rebozo scarves are sacred and considered to be an extension of the “loving hands of a mother.”Before we plan our session, please book a free 30 min discovery call to have your questions answered.
Six hours in person - $800
Closing the Bones Ceremony
This six-hour session is a deeply nurturing experience designed to support emotional release, physical and mental realignment, and a renewed sense of balance.During the ceremony, you will have space to process lingering emotions, gain clarity on your next steps, and reconnect with your body’s wisdom. We will weave together meaningful healing practices, including the creation of a beautiful herbal mandala, gentle rebozo rocking, and a swaddling ritual - all designed to restore your body’s natural alignment and bring a deep sense of peace and wholeness.Your journey doesn’t end when the session does - I provide 24-hour online support and a 30-minute follow-up call to help you integrate the experience.Before we schedule your ceremony, I invite you to book a free 30-minute discovery call to answer any questions and ensure this offering is the right fit for you.

What is it about?
Closing the Bones ceremony
The Closing the Bones ceremony is a deeply nurturing and restorative ritual designed to help women reconnect with their bodies and regain a sense of grounding after significant life transitions. Centered around honoring the physical and emotional turbulence of major life events, this ceremony supports the body in returning to balance and wholeness.The process combines physical, emotional, and energetic healing. The wrapping or swaddling of the body - particularly around the hips and abdomen - symbolizes the "closing" of the energetic and physical spaces that may have been opened during a transformative experience, such as childbirth, marriage, divorce, the loss of a loved one, career changes, grief, or any significant milestone. This act fosters a deep sense of grounding, protection, and integration.The Closing the Bones ceremony is a profoundly honoring practice that acknowledges the sacredness of your journey and supports you in feeling whole, empowered, and aligned with your true self. It is an initiation into a new, more integrated version of yourself, guided by your inner wisdom.
Support
Togetherness
Nurture
About Me
Who is Iryna?
I am Iryna Malakhivska, a descendant of Ukrainian, Polish, and Romanian ancestors. I reside in San Jose, California, surrounded by mountains and orchards, where I homeschool my two teenage children.I am a certified Family Constellations Facilitator, trained through Convivium Constellations with Leslie Nipps, and I also hold a certification to facilitate Closing the Bones ceremony, having learned under Taya Shopen.Before transitioning to my current practice, I worked in the Bay Area tech industry, collaborating with brilliant minds to bring innovative products to life.Why do I do this work? I believe everyone deserves to live a meaningful life, rooted in understanding their unique path, and to understand why one’s fate is unfolding the way it is. I longed to challenge the repetitive cycle of the hamster wheel and the numbness that came with it. The Family Constellations modality has given me a way to explore what drives my actions without needing to fully understand or express my feelings. Both Family Constellations and the Closing the Bones ceremony helped me discover my inner strength. Now, I am honored to support and guide others in finding their “why”.
Thank you
Thank you for subscribing! I’m really happy to stay connected with you and I hope to see you at our sessions. ✨In the meantime, I invite you to explore my offerings and book a free 30-min call consultation with me.
Certifications
1. Certificate of Constellation Facilitation (140 hours), Leslie Nipps
2. Traditional Swaddling ceremony, Taya Shopen
3. Certified Scrum Product Owner (CSPO), Scrum Alliance
4. Mastering Design Thinking, MIT Management Executive Education
My Interests
1. Neuroscience and how to make our thinking kinder.
2. Education and learning process.
3. Building small businesses and engaging in creative endeavors.
4. Organizational project management.
5. Navigating transitional stages of life (rites of passage, personal growth).
6. Exploring dreams.
What is coming up?
Upcoming Events
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